How to Stay Healthy and Joyful During the Holidays
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Thanksgiving may be over, but it's simply the kick off to the magical season of Advent, Christmas, Hanukkah, and Kwanzaa. We want to share with you this beautiful blog post by KiraGrace Warrior Sandra Vanatko on tips for staying healthy and joyful during this season.
How to Stay Healthy and Joyful During the the Holidays
by Sandra Vanatko
Holidays are often a time of added stress for many. I know that in my own life Thanksgiving and Christmas were quite painful for several years after my mother died. She passed away when I was twenty-one, and for years our family struggled finding a new holiday tradition. My mother was the matriarch of the family and all our gatherings were always centered around her. With her gone, holidays felt empty and painful. Everything changed. Holidays would bring up feelings of depression, pain, grief, loneliness, and for me each holiday became an anniversary of the last one which made it even more depressing. I do realize that âtime is a great healer.â There is so much truth in that. Our family switched things up and created new traditions so the holidays didnât feel like were just trying to recreate what we had because frankly, it can never be the same. I share that with you to help support you trying something new when the way things are done during the holidays donât work for you anymore. Something that also helped me is to not try and be other than I am. I now allow myself to fully feel the sadness and depression when it arises. And there are always some certain triggers that do that to me. I remember one year my sisters and I were making some of our family holidays foods, laughing, talking, and watching old home videos having a lot of fun. At one point some old home videos played with my mother in them. I watched as that ONE trigger shifted my whole holiday. I spiraled into a depression. Please have compassion on yourself when this happens. Its natural and itâs okay. Spiritual wisdom teaches us to observe ourselves with compassionate LOVE. Hold space for whatever is coming up within you.
Below are a few sources that stress around the holidays come from:
Unhappy memories. Going home for the holidays naturally makes people remember old times, but for you the memories may be more bitter than sweet. âDuring the holidays, a lot of childhood memories come back,â says Ken Duckworth, psychiatrist and Medical Director of NAMI who is also an assistant professor at Harvard University Medical School. âYou may find yourself dwelling on what was inadequate about your childhood and what was missing.â If you associate the holidays with a bad time in your life â the loss of a loved one, a previous time of depression â this time of year will naturally bring those memories back.
Toxic relatives. Holidays can put you in the same room with relatives you avoid the rest of the year.
Whatâs changed. The holidays can highlight everything thatâs changed in your lives â a divorce, a death in the family, a son whoâs making his first trip back home after starting college. Any of these can really unsettle a gathering and add holiday stress.
Whatâs stayed the same. For others, itâs the monotonous sameness of family holiday gatherings that depresses them â the same faces, the same jokes, the same food on the same china plates.
Lowered defenses. During the holiday season, youâre more likely to be stressed out by obligations and errands. Itâs cold and flu season, and your immune system is under assault. Itâs getting dark earlier each day. Youâre eating worse, sleeping less, and drinking more. By the time the family gathering rolls around, youâre worn out, tense, and fragile. The holiday stress makes it harder to cope with your family than it might be at other times of the year.
A few supplements that have supported my immune system during the holidays and winter season are below. My sister shared these with me years ago and we still use this winter regimen to help support our immune system.
*Vitamin E plus selenium combo *NAC (n-acetyl-l-cysteine)
To avoid even more stress as you enter the Season to be Jolly, Holiday Stress Relief Expert Lauren E. Miller, gives people real tips on how to have more joy and less stress in the midst of the holiday madness. âStress is simply a signal within your body giving you an amazing opportunity to identify and adjust your perception of a situation, along with your behavior. We forget that whatever we focus on grows bigger quickly â positive or negative,â says Miller.
Know what you value most in life. When your priorities are clear, decisions are easy. Stress creeps in when you forget what you value most in life. When you spend most of your energy on the ânonessentialsâ in life, you begin to feel depleted very quickly and the stress hormone begins to double. Create moments every day that nurture what you value most in this life and notice how quickly clarity of thinking and inner peace return within your being.
Let go of this belief: âIn order to be loved and accepted I need to be perfect, have the perfect house, tree, job, car, person, family, job, credentials.â What is your inner list of requirements in order to feel loved and accepted in life? Let go of your need for certain outcomes around the holidays in order for you to feel good about yourself. Happiness returns when you release the attachments you have in life in order to feel good about you. âRemember, joy flows from the inside out, not the outside in. Start loving yourself completely just as you are, right where you are at,â she says.
Breathe, Breathe, Breathe and be present to the âSilent, Holy, Nightâ that dwells within every moment of life. Give yourself the gap of empowerment that comes when you become the observer of your life verses the reactor. Be a curious and fascinated human being who looks at everything before them as an opportunity for learning and growth. When one door closes, donât waste one moment looking at that closed door, start seeking the open window. âDonât miss life, when you worry, doubt and fear; you miss the life standing right in front of your face. When you are present you will laugh more in life which has profound physiological benefits, another wonderful gift to give yourself and those around you this season,â she says.
I hope you find some of these tips helpful. I try to eat cleaner and get to bed earlier this time of year to also help keep my immune system stronger. Below Iâm posting a kundalini kriya that Iâm doing right now for 40 days. I know that it will help support me staying more balanced this holiday season. Itâs called 33 Minutes to Eliminate Stress. Itâs been wonderful. Perhaps, you might join me? Let me know, Iâd love to hear from you.
33 Minutes to Eliminate Stress
If you are looking for a few restorative Yoga poses to practice at home. These are lovely. Click here.
If you have anxiety try practicing long deep breathing to this picture. Happy Holidays.
With Much love to you. Blessings to your health this holiday season.
Comments? Iâd love to hear from you.
Sandra Vanatko is owner and visionary of Indraâs Grace. Students are drawn to her classes because of her warm loving nature and ability to sequence classes creatively. Sandraâs passion is to help students empower themselves. Sandra has been teaching Yoga since 2007. She is recognized and certified by Yoga Alliance as an ERYT-500 Instructor. Sandra is also a Certified Holistic Nutrition Counselor. Sandra is a certified Reiki Practitioner and offers personal healing sessions. She received her BA in Biology and Minor in Chemistry at Texas A&M University in 2001. Sandra has taught multiple workshops on the healing aspects of Yoga. She is gifted in working with those suffering from anxiety, depression, and grief. She is often sought after to present on the healing nature of Yoga. She presented Yoga for Emotional Healing at the 2012 and 2013 Texas Yoga Conference and presented Yoga for Forgiveness in 2015.
Sandra loves blending science and spirituality and believes that true healing starts from within. Sandra teaches over twenty group and private classes weekly. Sandra offers personalized Yoga therapy sessions, healing sessions, and spiritual counseling. She has taught over 7000 classes since Indraâs Grace opened in 2010. Sandra also runs a popular RYS200 and RYS500 teacher training program mentoring trainees to become therapeutic yoga teachers. Sandra also created a community outreach program called HOPE. Hope is a community yoga class offered free weekly for people with cancer and their caregivers. Students learn how to become conscious participants in their healing process. Currently Sandra is training to become a certified Holotropic Breath Work Facilitator and is also taking a KRI Certified Kundalini 200 Hour Training course. Forever the avid student you will always find Sandra learning. Sandra is honored to be a Kira Grace Warrior for the 2015-2016 year.
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